PANDEMIC DIARY

FEAR AS WORLDVIEW

July 19, 2019

F : False or Forget
E : Evidence or Everything
A : Appearing or And
R : Real or Run

Early in my professional career, I had a mentor who was a brilliant salesperson. I worked under him selling high-end consulting services to businesses. I would ‘shadow’ him on visits to clients following his instructions and observing his techniques. It was not an easy sell being that our engagements could easily ascend in cost to the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Aside from the subliminal techniques in his suitcase, there was one primary lesson. He instructed me to “sell fear'“. He said that “fear is the single greatest motivator, and that the two greatest fears were: the fear of not getting what you want; and, the fear of losing what you have. And, by far the greater of the two was the fear of losing what you have.

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In 2018, two political scientists, Marc Hetherington and Jonathan Weiler, wrote a book titled “Prius or Pickup” suggesting that politics today is less abut red vs. blue and more about fixed vs. fluid.
“Of the many factors that make up your worldview, one is more fundamental than any other in determining which side of the divide you gravitate toward: your perception of how dangerous the world is. Fear is perhaps our most primal instinct, after all, so it’s only logical that people’s level of fearfulness informs their outlook on life.”

The fixed worldview “describes people who are warier of social and cultural change and hence more set in their ways, more suspicious of outsiders, and more comfortable with the familiar and predictable.” Whereas, people with a fluid worldview, by contrast, “support changing social and cultural norms, are excited by things that are new and novel, and are open to, and welcoming of, people who look and sound different.”

What’s happened in recent decades, they argue, is that politics in general, and our political parties in particular, have reorganized around these worldviews, adding a new, and arguably irreconcilable difference into our political divisions. That difference is visible in everything from what we think, to where we live, to how we shop, but it’s particularly apparent in how hard it is for us to understand how the other side views the world.

From our inception, the fundamental ideological divide between party’s was the size of government. The Democrats proposed a bigger role; the Republicans advocated a smaller role. Most Americans varied in their judgements and commitments on this question. The party elites could compromise across party lines even as there were rancorous political differences.

A dramatic change took place in the 20th century as the dividing line was no longer about governance (more or less governing). The divide evolved into differences in philosophy about life - a worldview determined by the degree of fear experienced. Is the world a safe place to live and explore, or is it a dangerous snake pit to hunker down against.

If you think the world is dangerous, safety is always the No. 1 concern. When it comes to physical safety, (job security, opportunity, religious beliefs, social norms), letting your guard down against adversaries could be disastrous. If you think the world is safe, however, discriminating against groups that have generally been down the racial, gender, or sexual orientation hierarchy is the real sin.

We often speak to the issue of “identity politics”. However, at the core is a worldview that inclines people to identify with certain views about the nature of the world and our very existence. Worldviews have become mated to partisanship. And, we all have worldviews. It’s when those worldviews identify with a singularly defined identity around which individual lives are structured that produces intense conflict. Opposing worldviews have always been around. What is relatively new is how structured, conformed and mapped are these neatly packaged party identities.

Proclamations from the president about “American carnage”, “America is no longer respected”, “The world is a very dangerous place”, and “America is being taken advantage of” is utilizing the ‘dog whistle’ approach that speaks to a highly discreet population of citizens who are predisposed to fear. They already feel put upon, dismissed and ignored, their values challenged, their voices dimmed. “When Democrats see, hear, and read these things, they just don’t get it. Although they see danger, it is in the form of Republicans who perceive people who look or sound different as threats to national security. Modern-day Democrats see old traditions that discriminate against minorities, women, and LGBT people as the real threats to American life.”

All evidence points to the fact that the world is safer. Yet, reality hardly matters today. The bases of the two parties simply view the world much differently. The authors cite research that makes clear that fear benefits Republicans in a worldview divided system. Opinions creep to the right principally when one party is willing to use fear as a cudgel and are moved to aggressively assert a singular, clearly defined and articulated worldview. It is because Democrats are ‘open’ and available to change, and struggle within the party as to how much change is advantageous that their worldview often fails in its message and cogency.

Unfortunately, the author’s conclusions are not encouraging. Hetherington says, “I’m an optimist and even I can’t generate much optimism now…We appear to be approaching a crucible moment…When you hate your opponent as much as Republicans hate Democrats, it is hard to give an inch on anything… For things to change, something must supplant these primal worldviews as the dividing line between the parties. That impetus must come from the top. Leaders set the grounds of debate. Ordinary people follow their lead…I worry, though, that politics divided by worldview may be the natural state of things. We just didn’t realize that because we grew up in an anomalous time when the divide was about the size of government. Looking back over centuries, politics has almost always been fought between forces who favor the traditional and those who favor modernity. We’ve gone back to the future.”

The Silver-Studded Finger

We arrived in Costa Rica on January 2. I left North Carolina ill with "what's going around" [WGA]. "I don't think I know of anybody who is not sick", one of our friends from Durham noted this past week. So, it came as little surprise that Adele succumbed to the WGA four days into our arrival. Just yesterday, I spoke with my brother in Israel, a man that I mentor in Atlanta, and a friend in Los Angeles all of whom have a dose of WGA. It's everwhere.

The 'finger' of life. 

The 'finger' of life. 

In retrospect, Adele and I had already been 'sick' from the pressure, stress and tension caused by our "luxury problem" - dealing with all that attends to departing on an extended, year-long journey. For myself, I lose my short-term memory in direct relation to my anxiety. And, I mean "short" term! I have come to rely on Adele to know where I left my keys, my wallet, my iPhone... Greater frustration sets in when I have literally held that thing in my bloody hands moments before. Indeed, I have on occasion had the item in my pocket while searching for the damn thing. I don't fear 'the worst' of implications associated with my short-term memory failure. I trust the adage: "If you forget your car keys, that's not Alzheimer's; but, if you forget what your car keys are for???" Well, then...

Adele, on the other hand, has a habit of withdrawing...and getting 'pissy'. So, we share responsibilities. Possessed with a photographic memory, Adele points me in the right direction when I inadvertently misplace my underwear; and, I ground Adele with an embrace so she doesn't disappear for long periods. Affectionately symbiotic, no? But, then there are times when we are both completely 'out of whack' or one of us has descended off the deep end. At that point, the synchronicity and any opportunity for mutual support is lost. And, rather than culminating in peaceful resolution, we resort to the universal symbol for closure - the "finger". It is said that 'Esperanto' is the most widely spoken constructed language in the world. Yet, this gesture is more widely and frequently used, so visually and exquisitely concise, and offers a multiplicity and  transcendcy of meaning as to make Esperanto seem mute.

There has been another critical element to my frustration that has acted upon me the same way an unknown foreign toxin invades the body. A visceral event so disturbing, so fundamentally wrong on so many levels, so damning and potentially damaging that it has literally psychically and, in instances, physically shaken  me. The election pall has had a devastating effect on me. In my twilight hours, a creature appears to me like a darkness - a hovering, brooding black cloud - an ominous foreboding of provocation, prejudice and fear. I am reminded of Sauron of 'Lord of the Rings' or Darth Vader of 'Star Wars', symbolic evils Joseph Campbell cites as necessarily mythological in proportion to keep us aware of our own capacity to do harm. But, this is no mythical yarn, literary device or neuro-pathology. Neither is he 'symbolic' of anything. What he is, is dangerous. I beg us all to remain alert. Keep that finger flexed. And, may we walk together in the morning light.

A new dawning... 

A new dawning...